Angry Much?

 "The moment " I think I'm giving up on black women... You guys always are angry or wake up angry".... I'm going to say something. But if your girl is angry every time she wakes up maybe she's angry because she wakes up to YOU every morning. I'm sure the days she sleeps alone she is fine. Stop making comments like this... We are NOT all alike and maybe just maybe it's something about you that sets her off. (Or just the sight of your face)" 

One of my Facebook friends put up this stat in response to men calling black women angry. Although I myself am a black woman I decided to focus on all women not just black women. I honestly believe that all women go through similar things. This post is my attempt to take a few steps back and go at this topic from both sides...

My Point of view

Black excellence, opulence, decadence

Please let this be true!!! There's a new rumor that there will be a black cast member added to the next season of the Real Housewives of Beverly Hills. 

Baroness Monica Von Neumann

You don't even understand my joy and excitement... I feel a fire shut up in my bones! These emotions are just... just...

This HAS to happen!

Envious much?

"When a girl doesn’t like you, they link up with other girls that don’t like you either. Before you know it, it’s a hating ass group of bitches that have nothing better to do than hate on you for most likely irrational reasons that don’t make sense. The funniest part is they more often than not don’t even like each other, but they have that one thing in common and that’s you."

Scrolling around the wonderful world wide web. I found this beautifully written quote about "jealous bitches" linking up with one thing in common... Their mutual hate for you. Although on some level,  I do agree... the whole misery loves company thing never gets old. We all have haters, some more than others... We all get annoyed with the lies, rumors and gossip. It honestly has to get old after a while.

It's not about the haters you have it's about how we deal with them. I put my self in this category because this is not something I have mastered myself. We all have buttons and we can tend to get in our feelings from time to time. No one likes to be talked about or unfairly judged by anyone.

When I think about the scrutiny and judgement people place on celebrities I begin to toughen up. I mean can you imagine? How many people could really deal with constant criticism even when your trying to do something great? I figure, if they can deal with it... I'm sure I can manage.

 Over all, no one wants to hear about how many haters you have in access. It's like ok... we get it... putting too much energy and focus into anything will give you just that thing you focus on... "The Secret" 101.... If you constantly complain about haters you will have more haters. When you focus on something else, you will realize the haters seem to disappear. I know it's easier said than done, but trust me.. It's well worth a try.






It's a cold harsh world out there doll, everybody can't make it look as fly and fabulous as you.