How many times have we been really close to someone and felt this friendship would never end? Not only were you guy’s friends, you considered each other family. Now you find yourself not speaking to this person. Maybe you guys had a falling out or maybe one of you guys moved away and simply grew apart. I believe this has happened to everyone at some point in life.
If you’re into “self
improvement” as I am, You may find yourself wondering what it was that you did
wrong? How could you have done better and why did the friendship end?
After years of meeting and
losing contact with people I honestly think that not one person is more at
fault then the other. Friendships are sometimes for a reason. For example; If
you were really into partying and hanging out, then you stop. You may find that
you don’t run out with the same group. No one person is at fault, you simply
grew apart.
After years of having
different falling outs with people you realize that you are simply not on the
same page. Someone in the friendship may be feeling “some kinda way” about the
other person and the issue never gets resolved.
Once you walk away from the
friendship you move on with life and everything else is water under the bridge.
Through out life we will not like everyone that we meet. I think it's human to
to disagree.
We can easily get caught up
in the emotion of the situation or the “he said, she said”. The fact of the
matter is that on the outside looking in, no one wins in a battle of words. No
one wins in a physical altercation. The only victory is the one that you win
internally. If the friendship is worth saving, save it! If you would be better
off without all that baggage let them go. It really is that simple.
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