Copy & Paste Friends

While I was doing a little Sunday cleaning M.A. stumbled on an article about friends who copy and decided to share it with me. As I know he could care less about the drama that can consume us ladies and our friendships I thought it very kind that he had me in mind so I immediately stopped to read. I have had issues with this in the past and no matter how I tried to explain myself or how much I prayed about it, I just could not seem to shake the irritation…  

Personal Problem

Today I woke up mad… No particular reason…. I had a wonderful evening but somewhere between watching a movie on Netflix and waking up this morning I some how wound up on the wrong side of the bed. Has anyone else ever had this happen to them as well?  Have you ever been having a good day and suddenly think of something someone said or did and that thought takes you right back to that moment? That argument where you should have said more, or that shade someone was throwing and you let it slide… Yes, this too has happened to me. In times like this I have to work extra hard on myself.

All The Time In The World

Last week one of my neighbors went on a date, and after the date he came to the local watering hole we call our club lounge to re-cap the evening. While I thought it was lovely that my 70 something neighbor was still actively pursuing love, his responses to my questions were a bit startling. I asked him if he could see himself really with the lady and he replied, "she’s taking too long." I asked “taking too long for what?” He said "she was taking too long to sleep with me." I was taken aback… Not only was he very clear about his intentions, he backed his claim by stating that he only has about 12 years left of life so that means he needed to get in and out. He was dead set on having as much fun as he could in the limited amount of time he had left on earth. There was so much running through my mind after this conversation… I seriously was talking to a 70-year-old bachelor. This man clearly had no intentions on settling down and making anyone a wife. He decided to spend his last days having fun with the ladies of his choice.

They "Tried It"

 

Lord, why is this picture so funny to me? This is not the face of a sane person! I’m telling you this man is about to SNAP off in 2.5 seconds. This is the face you make when somebody lying on you to your face, This is the face you make when you sign up for something on the internet that says free and they charge your ass $200. This is the face you make when you buy a dress to wear out, you get home and the damn security tag is still on it. This is the face you give when a funny acting hoe ask you if you’re wearing “pack hair” Chile I can NOT with Kanye… 

Let's bow our heads and pray that this man fights his demons. I understand him... I honestly do. People will push you until they get a reaction out of you. We have to be smarter than that. There is no way you can defend yourself against every person that "tries it." Just let it go and let your actions prove who you truly are.

Photos courtesy of Bossip

Making and applying MN

Here is the Video I promised of how I make and apply MN to my hair. I hope you all find this helpful.